The 10 Best Places You Can Meet Attractive & Single BBW Cougars

Those of you who appreciate the company of good looking BBW cougars know that they are not always easy to find.

There are way too many bars, clubs, or other typical meeting places for us to try and we only have so much time.

We felt the same way so we spent a lot of time putting together a list of the places we have been most successful meeting single larger ladies.

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These are our 10 favorite places to meet them:

The grocery store is a great place to start

A girls gotta eat and BBW cougars like to eat more than most!

The grocery store is a great place to strike up a casual conversation without coming on too hard.

You will find a lot of women at just about any grocery store you go to but we have had the most luck at some of the more high end grocery stores like Whole Foods or even Trader Joe’s.

These grocery stores tend to attract the more mature and attractive BBW cougars who are willing to spend a little more on food.

If there isn’t a Whole Foods or Trader Joe’s in your town don’t worry about.

In fact, that might make it easier as all the women have to go to the same place to get their groceries.

Our favorite approach is to start off with a question about the food they are looking at to get the conversation started.

Something like “do you know how to tell if these tomatoes are ripe” to get her attention.

As long as you don’t come on too strong, this isn’t a bar or club, this can be a great place to meet a lot of women.

BBW Match Mate is fantastic if you are just looking for a quick hookup (and you can try them for free)

While BBW Cupid is great, it is more focused on long-term relationships instead of quick hookups. If you are taking a break for committed relationships or just don’t have any desire to be in one BBW Match Mate is going to make your life MUCH easier.

When it comes to these kinds of apps and sites there are really only a couple of options worth considering; Tinder and BBW Match Mate. I’m sure you have heard of Tinder and you may have tried it out. It can be great if you are a very attractive guy or a typical woman. The best-looking guys get 90%+ of the matches and guys who are not male models tend to have a very frustrating experience.

On the other side, BWW’s tend to avoid Tinder as well. It can be really hard on your self-esteem if you don’t fit traditional images of beauty and the guys using Tinder can be pretty cruel. As a result, a guy interested in meeting a BBW for some short-term fun is going to really struggle to find them.

BBW Match Mate (which has a free trial) really does a good job of enabling guys to connect with BBW’s. They have a huge active user base drawing from over 90 million members (they are part of Adult FriendFinder) and have been around for WAY longer than Tinder (since 2006). They are pretty much the top site for people, especially those over 30, who are looking for some fun with BBW’s.

If you are taking a break from long-term commitments or just want some short-term excitement give them a shot.

Check out your local BBW Meetup

Meetup.com has a lot of great local groups for all sorts of different interests.

Singles groups, including those for BBW cougars or other BBW women is no different.

If you live in any decent sized city there is a good chance that you will be able to find a local group dedicated to larger ladies.

Even if there isn’t a dedicated group there will be a large number of other groups worth checking out.

These are fantastic opportunities to meet a lot of different women in different social situations and worst case scenario make some new friends.

On the site you can see who the various members of the groups are as well as their pictures to get a good idea of the participants.

Check out a few and go from there.

Cougar Life is the easiest way to meet BBW cougars (click to try for free)

Online dating is one of our favorite ways to meet a lot of attractive women very quickly.

There are only so many hours a week you can spend out meeting women and online dating allows you to stop wasting the rest of that time.

We have yet to find a more efficient and effective way to meet women.

There are a lot of websites out there that cater toward either BBW or cougars but few that actually do both.

BeyondAges.com has put together the best cougar dating websites review around that we have found anywhere and as you can see Cougar Life is by far the best site for meeting more mature women.

As you can see in the review, nobody really comes close in this regard.

Check them out (you can join for free) and see if you like it.

Plus sized clothing stores are BBW magnets

It shouldn’t be a surprise but clothing stores that cater toward BBW cougars tend to attract a lot of them.

Stores like Lane Bryant specifically target larger women and provide them with a wide variety of clothing that they can’t find in their size elsewhere.

Now, we are not saying that you should just camp out in the stores themselves and wait around until a woman you are interested in shows up.

That would be more than a little creepy.

Be smart about it and spend a little time in the area around the stores as they tend to be located in shopping malls or areas with a lot of other stores around.

Hang out at the coffee shops near by or walk around.

There are going to be a lot more larger ladies in the area than most places around.

Strike up a conversation on public transportation

Lets face it, BBW cougars are not always big fans of walking from place to place.

This is where public transportation comes in, especially in larger cities.

Buses and trains in particular tend to have a high concentration of larger women riding those routes.

When you get on board take a quick scan of the area and then head toward where the attractive women are.

If there is a seat or place to stand nearby take that spot and say hello.

Naturally, if the train or bus is pretty empty it might be a little peculiar if you sit immediately next to them when there are dozens of empty seats around.

Use a little common sense in this case.

Book stores and libraries can be great

Many BBW cougars are attracted to past times that are lower energy and can be done indoors.

Reading is an especially popular activity with many BBW and many readers are very fond of book stores and libraries.

These are great places where you can hang out browsing through the stacks of books and look completely normal.

Many bookstores are also attached or near coffee shops which is another great option.

If you see a woman looking at a book (not reading a book, looking at it) it is a great opportunity to walk up to her and get her opinion on it.

Talk about the books she likes or what she is interested in and go from there.

Don’t be too loud if you are in a library but otherwise don’t worry about it!

Yoga classes have a surprising number of BBW cougars

If you have never been to a yoga class you might assume that is only attracts boney women in their tiny yoga pants.

Those of you who have been to a yoga class or two know that there are usually two distinct groups.

You have the super skinny yoga crowd and the more curvaceous ladies who are just as flexible.

Yoga is a surprisingly approachable hobby for a larger lady and tends to attract quite a few of them to a typical class.

If you are at all interested, or just like checking out women in yoga pants, you should check out your local class.

It is usually fairly inexpensive and there is amble opportunity before and after class to start a conversation.

You might actually like yoga yourself.

Be a little strong and a little more flexible never hurts!

Nicer bars where you can hear yourself think are still good

When it comes down to it good bars are still a very good place to meet single women.

You want to be picky on what bars you choose to ensure there is the right crowd there.

If you pick a noisy club where everyone is packed in like sardines you may not have great luck finding a larger lady.

More mature cougars are especially less interested in hanging out at the newest club and prefer more low-key bars and lounges.

They don’t want to spend all night competing with skinny 20 year old’s for attention.

Nice coffee shops have a lot of potential

Nicer coffee shops tend to attract a good number of attractive larger ladies that are not in a hurry.

Women come to these place to relax and have a cup of coffee so make sure that your interactions with them mirror that.

You want to play it cool and not be overly aggressive here.

If you see a woman with headphones on that is clearly engrossed in a book or magazine don’t interrupt her.

Wait for an opportunity when she is looking around or standing at the counter to make eye contact or say hello.

If you are calm, cool, and considerate starting a conversation is easy most of the time.

Dog parks are fun way to meet them

If you have a dog (and even if you don’t) check out your local dog park.

Big and beautiful women love their puppies and are more inclined to take them to a dog park to run around than walking all around the neighborhood with them.

This is a perfect opportunity for you to start a conversation about your dogs and see where things go.

Since your dogs will be playing for a while you have a lot of time to talk and a great exit strategy if the conversation isn’t working out.

As soon as things start winding down you can use your dog as an excuse to go, ask for her number, and make a smooth exit.

Women love talking about their dogs and seeing all the dogs playing together usually puts them in a good mood.

This is a perfect place to meet a lot of women on a regular basis.