The 11 Tips On How To Text A BBW You Like and Find Success

Learn How to Text a BBW You Like

Whether you have just met in person or only via a dating website, knowing how to text a BBW you like is crucial and needs to be handled with care.

Texting is the way to go nowadays but much can be lost in transition or translation.

In person, you can bring in your personality and character, but over texting, it can be easily misread if the message is unclear.

So, before you get those thumbs tapping out the first thoughts that pop into your brain, let us inspire and assist you to prevent embarrassment from taking place.

You can use these tips regardless of where you two initially met be it online(see our rankings of the top BBW dating sites to learn more) or out on the town.

Your main aim is build attraction between the two of you and to seduce and beguile her into meeting up.

How To Text a BBW You Like

Let us review and perfect the subtle art of texting to let your BBW know that you are very interested.

The opening line needs to be super good

You need to grab her attention from the word go.

Depending on how you got her number, you could use that as an opening line.

But still make it catchy and hard to avoid.

Something like, “Hey, lady, its Jake from the other night.  I just wanted to say hi”.

Or be a little bold, “Hey sexy!  How is your day so far? Jake here, BTW”.

If you picked up on something from her that you know she was to do that day, then go in with something about that.

Such as, “Hey Joanne, how was your spa treatment today?  I hope they didn’t wipe away all that beauty!  – Jake”

To be safe, keep away from referring to her as, “little lady or little missy”.

You both know she isn’t on the “little” side and it also sounds like you are calling her immature, so pulling that in won’t go down well.

Keep it short and sweet

While it may be tempting to go into long lines of poetry, don’t!

Keep it short and to the point.

Follow her lead though.

If she gives you 2 or 3 word answers then do the same back, because either she is busy or not in the mood for a long conversation right now.

You don’t want to bore her by typing up your whole life story and expecting her to read it all.

Keep the lengthy love quotes until later once the relationship has been established more.

Don’t act needy with a BBW

No one likes a beggar – especially a woman that you are interested in.

Don’t plead with her.

Just act a little nonchalant until you know that she is keen on getting to know you on a deeper level.

But don’t be an egotistical idiot either.

If she doesn’t answer your text straight away, then just be patient.

Don’t follow up a text with another and another.

Never say, “Hey, what happened to you.  I’m guessing you’re not interested then?”

That is just pathetic and you are jumping to conclusions.

Never assume just because she is a big girl that she is desperate for your texts and attention.

Type correctly when contacting a BBW

How to text a BBW you like begins with realizing that you are an adult – type like one.

Don’t abbreviate your words or use a bunch of slang.

That is, unless she uses it as well.

Check your spelling before sending your text.

There is nothing more irritating than a bad speller who’s words look like they were typed by accident.

Ask questions when learning how to text a BBW you like

Keeping the convo going is always your goal.

So ending your text with a question will get her answering back and it keeps the chat engaging.

Ask her questions that show you are interested in what she is doing and saying.

Consider trying to guess her answers

Don’t do this all the time, and definitely don’t say anything that criticizes her.

But if you ask her, “What are you thinking about right now?”  and answer straight away with, “Me, right?” and a smiley face emoticon, you may show a sense of humor.

Or ask her what she is doing for the weekend and preempt it by saying, “Oh, right, you’re into knitting.  How’s that going for you?”

Being cheeky can be considered cute.

And cute is a good trait to have as long as you don’t take yourself too seriously.

Say something funny

If you can make her laugh, or even just smile, then your friendship will blossom even faster.

Tell her a funny joke or something clever to come across as more approachable to her.

A girl who laughs with you will be a girl you says yes to seeing you in person.

Just avoid the fat jokes, but I would hope that you knew that already.

Make fun of yourself

If you can show her that you can laugh at yourself with some self-depreciating humor then she will feel even more comfortable around you.

Maybe tell her about that moment in the shopping mall when you nearly fell in front of everyone.

Be flirty but in a good way

Stay nice and subtle, in a manner that is tasteful.

An important rule in how to text a BBW you like is to take chances, but within reason.

Start off with effortless statements like, “Oh, you naughty girl!”

Let her know you are thinking of her with, “Ug, I have a problem.  I can’t stop thinking about you.”

When you have sussed out that she is either happy to flirt back or open to your flirting, step it up a bit.

Once the comfort level has been established, try asking her what she is wearing right now and how good it must make her look.

Don’t be Mr. Overkill

Whatever you do, please don’t fire off dozens and dozen of long messages a row.

Short, sweet and to the point – timing is crucial.

Ask her when is the best time to text her.

Then stick to that time frame.

Keep your comments genuine and don’t keep repeating yourself either.

Compliment your BBW with sincerity

Let her know that you think she is really pretty.

Tell her you love her laugh, assuming you have met with her already or have at least spoken to her.

Give her some very positive feedback on her profile picture.

Be completely sincere, and again, don’t go overboard with the compliments.

While you get better at texting a BBW you like – remember your end goal is to hook up with her in person.

Make that your mission when texting her so that you don’t wind up stuck being her pen pal.